The rationale behind "go clean your room" varies from family to family:
- there are the neat freak parents who just can't stand kids having messy bedrooms
- there are the control freak parents who can use this command to lord over their kids
- there are actually parents who use this admonishment to try to instill responsibility in their kids
- and, there are parents who know that throughout life one is always responsible for his own stuff and self, and they know the importance of raising their children with that knowledge.
Aside from our houses, it is far more important to do a bit of housecleaning in the room that really matters the most....our hearts. In that context, if I have a messy room, I have a messy life. And if I have a messy life, then chances are those I come in contact with as a man, a husband and as a father, are not seeing or knowing what God fully intended me to be. They are seeing dirt and clutter. It can only be masked so much. Dust bunnies of the heart are way more visible than the dust bunnies in my kids room.
As a grown up, I need to be reminded once in a while to "go clean my room." Those reminders usually come through some verse from the bible, something said by my pastor during his message, or perhaps from a friend who takes the time and the risk to tell me he is seeing something that is just a bit off base in me
How is your room? Do you need to go clean your room?
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